You have powers of attraction that you don’t even realize. Even if you feel you don’t have much to offer, trust me you do. You don’t have to be a 6 ft runway model or make a 6 figure secretary to attract. You simply need to find out what is unique and interesting about you and show it off. Most of us like to read books of one type or another. Even if you don’t read very often, chances are you have had the odd paperback in you bag for those long waiting times at airports or appointments. These are ways to draw those who like the same types of reading close to you. By having these with you and actually reading them, sooner or later someone will notice. This is the perfect opportunity to have a conversation with someone who has a similar interest. Where things go from there is entirely up to you. Some of us like certain items or styles of clothing. If you like something, wear it. Someone is bound to notice and make a comment. Again, this provides a great opportunity to meet someone with similar taste to yours. Once you start talking the opportunities are endless. Finally, you can be interesting by looking interested. If you meet someone, let them have the floor for the majority of the time. Don’t stay completely quiet but let them have about 60 percent of the talk time. This makes you appear interested in them, which is a very attractive quality. Being interesting doesn’t take a lot of effort. You definitely have something unique about you; use it to your advantage.
Monday, February 15, 2010
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